Four letter words.
Hate.
Fish.
Fuck.
Feel.
Love. Fool.
After heartfelt, shaken up posts andother coherant events I have begun to wonder...
Is it really better to have loved an lost than never to have loved at all?
Even if the ache lasts longer than the addiction?
Even if heartbreak overcomes hope?
When life is surreal and happiness a distant dream?
When you begin to question everything including yourself?
Because you were joint at the hip and have time on your hands.
Because cognitive capacities are challenged and can't keep pace.
Is love really as wonderful when its unrequited?
One things for sure it makes for brilliant reading, as do most other tradgedies, including death. Its much harder to steal a heart with wonderful stories as opposed to woeful ones, of that I am certain, but I digress.
Is love really blindness and butterflies?
Sensuality and speechlessness?
That smell in her hair, the look on his face. Her vain innocence and his vain attempts to impress.
Is it ever unconditional? Forever?
Does it lead to loss of basic instincts?
Can we really live on love and fresh air?
Ain't no sunshine when (s)he's gone?
Is it possible to love at first sight?
Or Is love just overrated?
Is it worth the eternal search?
The questions of some one for everyone? (scientifically speaking this is impossible)
Having never loved or lost I wonder, but I really wouldn't know.
Lust. Love. Laugh. Love. Like. Love. Loss. Still love.
posted by karuna @ 9:16 PM
23 comments
23 Comments:
I LOVED THIS POST!!!! And I will give into and answer all those questions of yours...even though I get the very distinct feeling that you dont want them answered here...but what the hell!!!
yes
yes
yes
yes
yes
yes...and lots more besides
yes...and lots more besides
ideally it should be...i know i will make it so...
more often than not...but thats the best part!
if i had my way with the world, we could!
its all cloudy. most of the time atleast.
more often that you would like to believe.
NO!
YES!
the last thing love is, is scientific!
Still love. Amen.
Like I said, I loved this post!!!! Keep 'em coming i say!!! cheers!
ps: he went away to melbourne, australia.
ohm what i was giving into in the first line was temptation! :)
Uumm i'd rather just read this post and stay silent...
very soul-searching post, girl. i do think it's better to have loved and lost. scientific theories are bullshit and nothing's ever unconditional... but this is part of life, however good or bad it may be... it's part of the life that we've been born with an intention to to live... if we give life a miss, what else do we have left?
>Is it really better to have loved an lost than
>never to have loved at all?
I'd rather have never loved at all.. A lost love., no matter what keep lingering in a corner of your head and keep irritating you when you notice a similar move., or word.. its like a permanent wound in the bottom of your heart..
Love for me is all that you mentioned above and more..what more??you ask.Well i dont know...and i don't even want to know..There r no rules buddy so there can't be any fixed patterns or reactions..
But ya all said and done IT IS better to have been loved and lost than not been loved at all! It's up to you how you take heartbreak as a part of life and move on...
good post.
Wishful thinker:
Wel i was jsut wondeirng, but answers are always welcome and especially when they are reassuring.
Me:
Hehehe, Thats cool.
Mandy:
well there is more to life, i mean nuns and roman catholic priests seem pretty fulfilled. But i get it.
Joe Steeve:
Your the first to give into my cynicism, but 'tis true.
Sublime Thoughts:
Moving on is easier said than done, god knows i've tried to help the process along but sometimes it just wont budge!
its better never to have loved than loved and lost
with the current state of affairs in my life.....i wanted to say something profound after reading this fantastic post...but what can i say...i am lost for words and i stare into happiness...only problem is i am looking back.
i think its better to have loved and lost...well almost lost..as they say..there is hope.
oh my god!
i always feel like ur rushing me when i read these kind of posts of urs!
lol
all of your questions have too many answers :)
You do seem confused, girl. If this is part of your life, them you have to find the answers yourself.
BTW, great post! :)
oh, i wouldn't know either...but i keep telling my friends to love, i tell them it's worth it even if u're hurt later...makes for good post material, as u said..
A resounding YES.
Its all a big rollercoaster ride - you are excited one moment, queasy in the stomach another, scared one moment, ready to let go another. In the end, it makes for great stories and memories,albeit some painful.
Hey! I've mostly been a silent reader of your blog. But this post left me wondering...for a long time. And i'd have to agree with most of the people...YES to all the questions! Yes, it IS better to have loved and lost than...
U get the drift ;-)
Karuna,
I guess you should watch a WAR FILM. Try 'Saving Private Ryan' - trust me you will get all the answeres.
Ajay:
And the second... you join the minority... :)
Samuraijack:
Thanks :)
Khizzy:
Rushing you? How?
I apologize... i have no such intention.
Anshul:
Really? I can only see the questions, answers continue to elude.
Rita:
Not really a part of my life, i hope to find the answers... eventually...
Ms. Iyer:
Aww... dont be so hard on yourself.
Monk:
So do i :)
And wishful thinkers blog is testimony to that...
Jax:
interesting analogy.
Vijayeta:
Yeayea, i think i do.
Just a human:
I have actually, not this particular one though, will try.
we resonate
also..
poop
boob
goop
Hope
Dope
pope...
enuff
"Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?"
It depends. Did you get the house and the car after splitting up?
Stumbled upon your blog in the process of blog hopping around on blogspot.
Just wanted to say hello and that this place makes a wonderful read. I love the coherrent stream of thoughts through your writing.
Will make sure I stop by here more often... : )
i suffer from 'big blur syndrome', as you are already well aware :)
So not a single answer do i have.
Great post, and the posts you linked were also quite neat ;)
no really, I need to do that,
You said she returns , and now you dissappeared. :(
Where it is you are disappearing off to I say!!!??? Come back fastly from wherever you are and put up a new post I say!!!! :)
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